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I saw this somewhere - Not forgiving someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Well I don't think God want us trying to kill other people but how true is it that not forgiving is literally killing you from the inside instead and yet the person who offended you is moving along swiftly with their lives! God revealed this one thing to me when I 'rightly so' held resentment against abc or d's unjust actions towards me. He was like " Rita you've got to realise that when there is resentment and anger in your heart it messes up My free flow communication channel with you, now your spirit is clogged up and you won't be able to hear clearly from me. You are angry and you are bitter and those are not fruit of my Spirit dwelling inside of you. Yes I understand you are hurt and going by the facts on the table, you have a right to be - but you are forgetting that vengeance is mine. So give the pain and the hurt to me, lay it by my feet and leave it here, let me heal the wound they caused you, let it go - you don't have to wait for an apology from them, let it go and feel my love for you, isn't my unhindered presence much much much more worth having than you receiving the justice you want your own way? " and as soon as I obey Him, instantly I begin to feel better. It's like that season or hours or minutes of not forgiving took you off course and once you let it go to Jesus it's like your realign your focus and can see clearly again and His presence in and around you just starts to give you so much peace and joy and life!! I am reminded of a conversation I had with a friend sometime ago that helped me realise this other aspect of forgiveness, that when anyone hurts or offends you His creation - technically speaking it's God they are offending and hurting - it is Him we sin against, not man, plus He see's their heart and He see's all the evidence of the case, hidden and presented which we don't. So doesn't that mean He alone is the ultimate jury and not us?
The bible teaches us a whole lot about letting go - in fact it commands us to forgive as one of the way to resist the devil !! This to me means the enemy also uses and manipulates situations to get us into not forgiving to his own twisted advantage!!
Matthew 6:14 14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
Matthew 6:9 9 “This, then, is how you should pray: “ ‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, 10 your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. 11 Give us today our daily bread. 12 And forgive us our sins, as we also have forgiven those who sin against us. 13 And lead us not into temptation,but deliver us from the evil one.’ 14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
Matthew 6:1414 For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you.
Mark 11:25 25 And when you stand praying, if you hold anything against anyone, forgive them, so that your Father in heaven may forgive you your sins.
1 Peter 3:9 9Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult, but with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.
Romans 12:1717Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Carefully consider what is right in the eyes of everybody.
Colossians 3:1313Bear with each other and forgive any complaint you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you.
Ephesians 4:32 32Be kind and tender-hearted to one another, forgiving each other just as in Christ God forgave you.
Matthew 18:22
21Then Peter came to Jesus and asked, “Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother who sins against me? Up to seven times?” 22Jesus answered, “I tell you, not just seven times, but seventy-seven times! ..........for Jesus was speaking not only about forgiving one another but about Christian character - they were still thinking in the limited terms of the law, rather than in the unlimited terms of grace. Jesus was not limiting forgiveness to 490 times, a number that is, for all practical purposes, beyond counting. Christians with forgiving hearts not only do not limit the number of times they forgive; they continue to forgive with as much grace the thousandth time as they do the first time. Christians are only capable of this type of forgiving spirit because the Spirit of God lives within us, and it is He who provides the ability to offer forgiveness over and over, just as God forgives us over and over. if we are forgiven the enormous debt of sin against a holy God, how much more should we be eager to forgive those who sin against us, who are just as sinful as they? - Source : gotquestions.org
You haven't truly forgiven that person if every time you see their name or hear their voice you get this feeling of disgust or irritation in the pit of your stomach. Instead of holding onto forgiveness, ask the Lord to help you to forgive by faith. Then, instead of replaying how they hurt you, pray for them. Praying for them will free you FOR you. - Source : Heather Lindsey
I am not belittling your pain, or in any way assuming this is an easy affair. The world is and does get very heavy, and so does the pain but God asks that we cast our cares and burdens on Him, that we stop moving around with this heavy load - and He promises to help you through it, never will He leave you or forsake you. He wants to take away your pain and make you whole, and you can't do that by holding on to this load. So trust Him, it is so worth your life to let go !
Let's all learn and purpose and be intentional to letting it go, to heed and follow the nudging and instruction of the Holy Spirit, to live without heavy laden hearts... There is something so beautiful and so worth it on the other side of our obedience! When we hear His voice, let us not harden our hearts. Not forgiving makes our hearts hard and dark and sad.
So I'll end it here today with this beautiful exhortation reminding us about forgiving quickly as a Christian character that I stumbled onto if I am not mistaken via DesiringGod,org when I had already began to draft this - talk about confirmation !!
QUICK TO FORGIVE
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| Guard your heart but do not repay evil with evil |
The Bible teaches us to forgive “readily and freely.” That is God’s standard for us, no matter how we feel about it. We are to be quick to forgive.
According to 1 Peter 5:5, we can clothe ourselves with the character of Jesus Christ, meaning that we can choose to be long-suffering, patient, not easily offended, slow to anger, quick to forgive, and filled with mercy. My definition of “mercy” is to look beyond what is done to me that hurts and discover the reason why it was done. Many times people do things even they don’t understand themselves, but there is always a reason why people behave the way they do. Perhaps they are hurting and in their own pain they don’t even realize they are hurting someone else.
God forgives! We are to be merciful and forgiving, just as God in Christ forgives us our wrongdoing. He not only sees what we do that is wrong, but He understands why we did it and is merciful and long-suffering. The choice to forgive others is ours. God will not force anyone to do it. Even if you don’t understand it, believe that God’s way is the best. It works. He can take what Satan meant to destroy you and turn it for your good. "
We are to forgive in order to keep Satan from getting the advantage over us. Recognise seeds of anger and bitterness and grudges as the enemy's type of tools used to kill, steal and destroy our peace, joy, lives, our communion with God and even cost us eternity! and that they are not of God. God brings joy to those whose hearts are broken. Let us draw near to God and not allow anything to keep us from Him. James 4:6 6But He gives us more grace. This is why it says: “God opposes the proud, but gives grace to the humble.”7Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. 8Draw near to God, and He will draw near to you. Cleanse your hands, you sinners, and purify your hearts,
Through the all the storms that will come our way - Keep your heart on Jesus - the Holy Spirit will help you! He will comfort you in way no revenge would ever achieve.
Let us all choose to way of forgiveness.
[{ UPDATED }] When you get the time, check out this 12 minute video by Heather Lindsey titled The Poison of Unforgiveness , that I see today after I posted this blog yesterday - do check it out - and my take on this is God is repeating Himself because He really really wants us to search our hearts and let go, let it all go!
PS : Also listen to this song by Nathaniel Bassey - that has a very interesting warning message about unforgiveness.
I pray this blog post has blessed you as much as it has blessed me writing it.
God bless,
Love Ree.
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